The Coordinator should discuss with the center the kind of “scene” or power dynamic she wishes to create for her gang bang. For some they may simply wish to be fucked and not involve a power disparity. For others, they may wish to be “treated like a whore,” objectified, etc. It is the Coordinator’s responsibility to create that scene for her (through counseling the bangers, setting the music mood, etc.).
Another role of the Coordinator is to screen potential bangers. This includes verifying test results, as well as meeting each of them prior to the bang to ensure they’re suitable for the event and approving or rejecting them (I call it “screening for assholishness”). If you have any specific requirements for the men you’ll be fucking (race, sizes, marital status, etc.), you should discuss those prior the beginning the recruitment and include those in any recruitment announcements you publish.
That’s not any fault of their own, but rather a function of anxiety from being naked and having to engage in sex in front of other people
Where you elect to host will depend on how many people are going to be playing. If you just have 4 or 5 guys and the center, then a hotel room would usually suffice quite well. If you’ve got the center, 15 men, two fluffers, a monitor, and perhaps more, though, you’re going to need a little bigger room.
Obviously, if you know someone who’s got the room and they’ll allow you to use it, then so much the better. Alternatively, you may need to rent some space. If you’re going to rent space, be sure you let the space owner know what’s going to be happening and is comfortable with that.
The hosting site needs to have a bathroom and a shower at a minimum. When you get done, you’ll likely be covered in fuck funk – cum, sweat, saliva, lube, urine, etc. You’ll want to wash it off before you head home. Some of the bangers may want to wash up as well. Work with the hosting site to ensure there are sufficient numbers of towels (or have everyone bring their own). If you’re in a hotel, you can request extra towels from the housekeeping department (though they may wonder why you need an extra ten sets of bath towels!).
This will be your biggest challenge, despite the huge number of guys you see claiming they’d be right there for a gang bang. You’ll need to decide if you want to use people you know or recruit random participants. Generally, allowing random participants will increase your ability to get a sufficient number of bangers, especially if you’re looking for a larger number.
If you know someone in the local BDSM community, someone who has a dungeon, a swinger’s club, or some other place used for group sex activities, then those should be considered
There are two things to keep in mind when recruiting participants. First off, many won’t show, even if they say they will. Second, some who do show won’t be able to perform (get an erection). It happens, so you need to take that into consideration. Therefore, if you want to be banged by 10 people, you should consider recruiting 15 or more to attend.
- Use Craigslist: The W4MM Section is a good place to start.
- If you’re a member of a swing club, they may allow transgenderdate.com you to organize a gang bang in house and you’d have a built-in source of participants.